Late Friday Night Game: Should Kids Sleep In Saturday?

Yes, let them sleep in after a late Friday night game, but by about an hour, not until lunch. One late night is fine; it is the three-hour Saturday lie-in that follows it that shoves Saturday’s bedtime late and drags the whole weekend after it. If there is an early game on Saturday, wake the player at the time the game needs and pay the night back with a quieter afternoon and a slightly earlier bedtime. And do not count on the toddler sleeping in at all. A short night usually makes the youngest wake earlier, not later.

What one Friday night actually costs

Run the numbers before kickoff, not in the car park at 10:15. Say the high-school game kicks off at 7:00, the final whistle goes around 9:30, and you are home and through teeth by 10:30. An eight-year-old whose normal lights-out is 8:15 has just lost a little over two hours.

That is a real gap, and it is also a single one. Betteroo’s chart of sleep needs from preschool through the tweens answers the “is 9 p.m. too late?” question for six- and seven-year-olds plainly: on a school night, usually yes, but “once in a while is fine; as a routine, most 6 and 7 year olds do better with lights out closer to 8:00.” A homecoming game is once in a while. Every Friday of the season is a routine, and that is a different problem (see the last section).

So the Friday itself is not the decision. Saturday morning is.

Case one: nothing on the calendar until noon

This is the easy Saturday, and the one families most often overdo.

• Cap the lie-in at about an hour. The same Betteroo guide puts the weekend allowance at “no more than about an hour different” from the weekday schedule. HealthyChildren’s sleep habits page lists “the same waking time (both on weekdays and weekends)” among the things that help a child sleep. An hour pays back some of the night. Three hours moves the clock.
• Open the curtains when you wake them. The same AAP page says to “expose children to bright light when it’s time to get up to help stimulate wakefulness.” Breakfast by a window does more than a second alarm.
• Hold Saturday’s bedtime where it normally sits. Not earlier: a kid who slept until 8:30 will not be sleepy at 7:30. Not later either, because Monday does not care about homecoming.
• Skip the afternoon nap for school-age kids. A seven-year-old who crashes on the couch at 3:00 has spent the sleep that was meant to get them down at bedtime. Keep the afternoon upright and outdoors, even if “outdoors” is the driveway.

Dry observation from the bleachers: the kid who begged to stay for the fourth quarter is never the one who asks to sleep in. It is the one who wanted to leave at halftime.

Case two: a 9:00 game on Saturday morning

This is the house with a high-school sibling under the lights on Friday and a U8 team on the grass at 9:00 the next morning. You cannot let the player sleep in, so do not try.

• Decide Friday’s exit on Thursday. Work backward from Saturday’s warm-up time to the wake-up, then to the lights-out the player needs. If that lands at 8:45, the answer may be the first half and a hot chocolate on the way out. How much sleep 5 to 8 year olds need runs that arithmetic for early game mornings.
• Wake them at the time the game needs. A slow morning on a short night is normal.
• Do not judge the game by the night. A kid who is a step slow at 9:15 after a big Friday is having an ordinary morning, not a slump. Keep the car-ride talk to the same rules as what to say after any other game.
• Pay it back in the afternoon, not the morning. A quiet afternoon at home, and a bedtime 20 to 30 minutes earlier than usual, recovers more than a lie-in would have, without moving Sunday’s wake-up.

If Saturday is a full tournament, the tournament weekend sleep plan is the better playbook, and “can we still go Friday?” usually means “for the first half.”

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The youngest in the stands

The baby or toddler is the one a Friday night game costs the most, and the one least likely to make it up on Saturday.

They will probably fall asleep in the stands or the car. Plenty of little ones go down in the stroller or carrier somewhere in the third quarter. For a baby, the AAP’s safe sleep guide is plain: if your baby falls asleep in a “car seat, stroller, swing, infant carrier or sling, you should move them to a firm sleep surface on their back as soon as possible.” So the plan for 10:30 is the crib, not the car seat carried inside and left on the floor.

Do not expect a lie-in. This is the counter-intuitive one. Betteroo’s guide to why a short night backfires on little ones says overtired babies “sleep lighter, wake more often, and often start the day before 6 a.m.” The toddler who was up until eleven is very often the first one up on Saturday, cheerful and ready, while the eight-year-old snores until eight.

Protect Saturday’s nap instead. For the youngest, the recovery happens at nap time and at an earlier Saturday bedtime, not in the morning. Run the usual nap in the usual place, even if the morning was early. A nap snatched in the car on the way to the U8 game rarely counts as the real one.

Keep them warm enough to sit still. A cold toddler is a wriggling toddler, and a wriggling toddler does not drift off anywhere. A closed-cell foam pad like the Therm-a-Rest Z Seat between your lap and a metal bleacher helps more than another layer on top; the rest of the cold-night kit is in cold-weather sideline gear. A younger sibling who is not ready for a full game at all might be better off home with one parent, which is a perfectly good Friday.

When it is every Friday, not one

The older sibling made varsity, or the marching band, or the cheer squad, and now every Friday is a 10:30 night for most of the fall. The one-night rules stop working, because a late Friday every week is the schedule. Options that hold over a season:

• Rotate. One parent brings the little ones to home games; the other covers away games alone.
• Pick the games that matter. Homecoming, senior night, a rivalry game. The other Fridays, the younger kids hear about it at breakfast.
• Go for the first half. Arrive for kickoff, leave at halftime. The band still plays, the kids still see their sibling, and lights-out lands nearer nine than eleven.
• Watch Monday, not Friday. If Monday mornings get harder as the season goes on, the Fridays are costing more than an hour, and something on that list needs to change.

FAQ: late Friday night games and Saturday mornings

Should I let my child sleep in after a late Friday night?

Yes, by about an hour. That pays back some of the night without pushing Saturday’s bedtime late. HealthyChildren lists the same wake time on weekdays and weekends among the habits that help.

How late is too late for a kid at a Friday night football game?

Work backward from Saturday’s wake-up. With an early game, leaving at halftime is often the right call.

Why did my toddler wake up early after a late night?

Overtired little ones tend to sleep lighter and wake earlier, not later. Protect Saturday’s nap and keep bedtime a little earlier that night.

Should my kid nap on Saturday after a late Friday game?

Toddlers and preschoolers who still nap, yes, in the usual place. School-age kids are usually better without a late-afternoon nap, so bedtime still comes on time.